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"Feminism is not about who opens the jar.

It is not about who pays for the date. It is not about who moves the couch. It is not about who kills the bugs. It is not about who cooks the dinner. It’s not even about who stays home with the kids, as long as the decision was made together, after thinking carefully about your situation and coming to an agreement that makes sense for your particular marriage and family.

It is about making sure that nobody ever has to do anything by “default” because of their gender. The stronger person should move the couch. The person who enjoys cooking more, has more time for it, and/or is better at it should do the cooking. Sometimes the stronger person is male, sometimes not. Sometimes the person who is best suited for cooking is female, sometimes not. You should do what works.

But it is also about letting people know that it is okay to change. If you’re a woman who wants to become stronger, that’s great. If you’re a man who wants to learn how to cook, that’s also great. You might start out with a relationship where the guy opens all the jars and the girl cooks all the meals, but you might find that you want to try something else. So try it.





Sabrina with new hair, 2014

Party hair forever.

"Me gusta besar, enamorarme de verdad y cuando pones tanto en esas cosas, lo más normal es que salgas lleno de cicatrices. Y las cicatrices son pruebas de que has vivido."

- Joaquín Sabina (via hachedesilencio)

"Y es que… para escribir del amor, tienes que estar enamorada o con el corazón roto y no sé cual de las dos es peor."

"I’m an observer. I read about life. I research life. I find a corner in a room and melt into it. I can become invisible. It’s an art, and I am a wonderful practitioner."

- Christine Feehan  (via universeobserver)



  • finding someone aesthetically pleasing
  • being sexually attracted to someone
  • being romantically attracted to someone

"When a relationship is over, leave. Don’t continue watering a dead flower."

- Dean Steed (via fawun)

"Art exists because life is not enough."

- Ferreira Gullar  (via fawun)